Friendship
Some people think
that life-long friendship exists only in books and films. Others believe that
it exists in real life.
Friendship is considered one of the central
human experiences and for many people. It may be as important as love. There are
different types of friendship. People have close friends, pen pals or just
acquaintances. Life-long friendship is a rare kind of friendship and a lot of
people even doubt that it exists in real life.
I believe that life-long friendship exists
not only in books and films. For example, my grandfather has a friend whom he
has known since his childhood. They are devoted to each other and they have
much in common. My grandfather and his best friend understand and support one
another. Besides, they have similar tastes, interests and life philosophies.
Grandfather often says that when they were young, his friend used to help him
in times of need or crisis. They have always trusted each other and they have
never quarrelled.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of people
who have no close friends. Some reserved and shy people find making friends
rather difficult. What is more, it is really not easy to find a person with
whom you can share strong interpersonal ties. Those people who have not found
best friends are sometimes sure that real friendship exists only in books and
films. But they shouldn't despair because they may find close friends in the
future.
In conclusion, I'd like to add that it is
very difficult to live without friends. Your friend is your helper, adviser and
supporter. He or she gives you a sense of being protected, emotional comfort and
moral support. The English proverb says: "A true friend is the best
possession".
There is a proverb
that says "a friend in need is a friend indeed". However, many people
believe that a friend's success may ruin friendship.
Different people have different notions of
what kind of person a true friend should be. Most of them think that a friend
is a person who understands you, shows kindness and sympathy, has similar
tastes, interests and life philosophies. You can always trust your friend and
share your hardships with him or her. Besides, a true friend is always ready to
help you and to support you in times of need or crisis.
I strongly feel that a real friend is a
person who doesn't only help you and give you advice. A real friend should
never envy you if you are more successful. And if he does, then he is not your
friend. To my mind, friendship between people with different financial standing
is rare, but possible.
However, a lot of people still believe
that friendship is a union of the equal. They tend to make friends with the
representatives of their own social circle and financial position. Most people
are convinced that friendship will be ruined as soon as your friend is promoted
or succeeds in some other way.
To conclude, I'd like to say that a real
friend is not only a person who helps you in need, but the one who doesn't turn
away from you in case you are luckier, richer or more successful than he or she
is. Friendship must not end when success comes. So we can paraphrase the
proverb: "A friend who never envies you is a friend indeed".